Relationships

As we live in a society we have different types of relationships with people. It is very important to have relationships because they contribute to our growth. Isolating oneself leads to a lot of problems. There are many types of relationships. Relationships may be formal or informal, both have a set of norms that are followed. In order to sustain a relationship, there needs to be open, honest communication. Relationships thrive on reciprocation, mutual trust and understanding.

Defining a relationship is not always easy, both need to be on the same page. Time changes people and this leads to blurred lines in relationships. An evaluation of relationships is important in order to know where one stands in the relationship. Past history of relationships definitely has an effect on present relationships, but it's important to not sabotage present relationships because of the negativity of past relationships. 

A dominant submissive relationship is a relationship in which one is active, controlling while the other is passive and yielding. Distrust and insecurity fuels this type of relationship which leads to conflicts. This type of relationship is unhealthy. A symbiotic relationship involves division of responsibilities. The needs of the two are taken care of in a way that benefits both. This relationship is based on trust and respect.

The type of relationship we have with our parents or caregivers determines the kind of attachment we have with other people. We can have a secure, ambivalent/insecure or avoidant/resistant relationship with other people which reflects our relationship with our parents. If we resolve issues related to attachment with our parents then that will change our attachment style with others. Based on our attachment style we tend to push people away, pull them to us or both. It is important

to introspect in order to work on ourselves to rid away our insecurities that negatively affect relationships. 

Relationships require patience, love and nurturing in order to fulfil us. Forgiveness, courage and willingness are needed in order to manifest individual and mutual goals in relationships. Nobody wants to hurt but if we close ourselves to opportunities to learn from experience, then we will lose out on the chance of finding happiness.